December 27, 2010

Christmas Eve


Snipp wanted to have a Christmas party in his room, so much of the day he was preparing his room, rearranging and getting it set up. As dusk came, so did anticipation and they begged me to do supper later and just have the party.


So we began, after I did a little preparation myself, which included dressing up in church attire as I had been requested to wear. Snipp, Snapp, and Snurr were in their army fatigues. As I entered the room, the two older boys were on either side of the door saluting me, and the youngest was inside proudly holding our nations flag. Once I was seated, the older boys came marching in, saluted the flag and held their salute while all three recited the pledge, shouting out, "..Under GOD.."Then the festivities began. We sang songs, opened presents from some friends, but we couldn't open our treasure boxes because Baby Jesus was missing. Baby Jesus always has the key to the treasure boxes. We did find a note though, it said, "Wise men still seek HIM. Go ask the angel about whom ye seek!"


A little history now so you understand:On our first Christmas after we were married, we had no money for presents. So I patched my husband's favorite coat and we rejoice when God unthawed our well pump. That year I started a tradition. I wrote down blessings the Lord had given us through the year and shoved the slips of paper down into our stockings. And each year since then we have focused on our blessing stockings. Till Jim died. Hanging his stocking was just impossible and I didn't want to hang ours without his. So that year, I took a little cedar box and put in pictures or things to symbolize blessings/treasures God had given us. A picture of our van and house, a gold cross, a watch, a Bible, etc. Then the following year, I found the answer. Treasure Boxes!!!! So instead of stockings, we have treasure boxes that each year has a list of treasures/gifts from Jesus. What a joy and blessing to read last years treasures as I prepared the boxes.


Another tradition we added was one Daddy started the last Christmas he was with us. In my stocking was a clue to find my gift. It ended up being in the dryer!!! Anyway, so also in each treasure box now is a clue for example: Go to something Daddy read every day. As we all know, the figuring out the clues and the hunt is about as much fun as getting the gifts. It is also a reminder that treasures have to be sought after. Like the wisemen did to find Jesus. And that we too need to seek Christ to find Him.


Back to our Christmas adventure: "Go ask the angel about whom you seek." So we went to our nativity scene. We asked the angel who told us some of the Christmas story then sent us to Mary. Mary shared more of the story then sent us to Joseph and on it went. Final an old sheep sent us to the camel and the camel gave us a riddle. Snipp was able to solve it and found Baby Jesus in the cookie jar. Back up to treasure boxes. We opened them and read our Blessings. Then the boys read clues and found their three simple gifts. Later by only the light of the Christmas lights, we ate supper. It was fun and special. Later the boys camped out in Snipp's room and I read Luke 2 to them.


It was a good night. We felt held.

December 23, 2010

This was amazing to listen to:
http://www.opbbc.info/sermons.html

Scroll down to December 19/2010
Titled: Sons of Parfitt
Description : The Parfitt Young Men preaching in memory of their father

Please continue to pray for the family of Ken Parfitt

December 20, 2010

I don't usually do this, but I thought this man had interesting thoughts as he drove away from a funeral of a newly widowed family.

http://www.lonsberry.com/writings.cfm?story=3030&go=4
December 20th post called A Call to Service

Please pray for the family of Ken Parfitt.
Thank you!

December 09, 2010

A Decembered Grief

I have been rereading through A Decembered Grief: Living With Loss While Others Are Celebrating by Harold Ivan Smith.

I thought I would share its Table of Contents to be an encouragement to any fellow grievers who stop in here:
  • Alter-Rather than Abandon-Traditions
  • Anticipate the Holidays
  • Appreciate the Grief Styles and Decisions of Others
  • Ask Your Church for Help
  • Be Alert to the Culture's Obsession with Excitement
  • Befriend Your Grief
  • Befuddle Someone
  • Carolize Your Season
  • Celebrate Sensitively
  • Consider the Needs of Everyone
  • Create New Traditions
  • Create Ornaments or Decorations That Symbolize Your Loved One and Eternal Life
  • Cry If You Want To
  • Define Your Boundaries
  • Do What You Need To Do
  • Donate to Your Church or a Charity in Honor of Your Loved One
  • Don't Fast-Forward to January 5
  • Forgive Those You Believe Are Responsible for the Death
  • Give Your Grief Its Voice
  • Give Yourself Persmission to Say, "No," or "I'll Pass"
  • Guard Your Heart
  • Invite God's Help
  • Journal Your Grief
  • Made Gratitude
  • Minimize the Seasonal Stressors
  • Miss the Invitations to Parties and Other Social Events
  • Nap
  • Network With Other Grievers
  • Nurture Yourself
  • Observe a Quiet Holy Day
  • Organize Your Living Environment
  • Prepare
  • Read
  • Remain Open to Seasonal Surprises
  • Remember Realistically
  • Resist the Temptation to Make It Up to Others for What They've Been Through
  • Rethink Your Holiday Shopping Habits
  • Say Your Loved One's Name
  • Try Events
  • Unplug the Christmas Mania
  • Use Some of Your Seasonal Decorations
  • Visit the Cemetery or Scattering Ground
  • Volunteer at a Social Service Agency
  • Vote Your Choices
  • Watch Children
  • Watch Out for Numbing Influences
  • Weigh Any Criticism of Your Grief Style and Holiday Decisions
  • Worship
  • Write A Year-End Letter to Your Deceased Loved One
  • "Yes" Invitations That Feel Right
  • "Zestize" Your Season

December 08, 2010

Ephesians 3:14-21

Words of Life to me today:

For this cause I bow my knees unto the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ,

Of whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named,

That he would grant you, according to the riches of his glory, to be strengthened with might by his Spirit in the inner man;

That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love,

May be able to comprehend with all saints what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height;

And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God.

Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,

Unto him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages, world without end. Amen.

December 06, 2010

Eternal Career

I read this blessed quote today:


"Mothering is an eternal career"