- Liquid soap is awesome at getting copper pipe to slide off your finger that didn't belong there in the first place.
- Messes take seconds to make and hours to clean up.
- Locking someone in the pump house or a room is just like kidnapping.
- Obey Mom the first time.
- Sometimes lost dogs come home on their own; and only God knows of their adventures.
We talked about many things, I then shared with him how I used to pray for the Great Comforter to come and hold me all night when I hurt so much missing Daddy. I told him how God was faithful and He did it, many, many times. We hugged and I prayed over him, gave him a Daddy pillow to hug and wrapped him up in my favorite blanket. Soon sleep came for Snurr.
My heart was heavy and my ache was raw again. This is the hardest part of being a widow, feeling helpless as your children grieve their father. I know the LORD loves Snurr more than I do and I know He promised to heal him. But us moms get used to being able to fix all the hurts or shield our children from them to begin with. Grief is a hurt that is so deep and so personal, all I can do is try to help him express his grief in a healthy ways and pray intensely for healing.
Burdens like this are too heavy for one woman. I poured out my own heart to the LORD. Then I shared my aching heart with some late-night praying sisters. Their prayers, words, and understanding were comforting. One encouraged me to pray Jeremiah 29:11-13 with and for Snurr. What sweet verses:
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you. And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.
This morning Snurr was in the same position he was when I last checked on him the night before. He slept soundly all night. Thank You, Jesus! I told him about wanting to share some verses that a friend had shared with me. I flipped to Jeremiah 49 by mistake and read verse 11: Leave thy fatherless children, I will preserve them alive; and let thy widows trust in me.
Isn't that a widow's fear? That the grief will destroy the children. That the enemy will use it to pull them from God. The Lord will preserve the fatherless children.....AMEN!!! Let thy widows trust in GOD.....isn't that what we learn to do with these grieving children? Carry them to the altar and lay them in His arms, then pray and wait for healing to come. And it will come. The Lord promised:
Psalms 147:3 He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.
After I read Jeremiah 49:11, we smiled how God can use a mistake of mine to be exactly what we both needed to hear. Then I went back to Jeremiah 29:11-13. We discussed what it meant then I prayed it over him. Later, I heard Snurr tell his brothers that the verses in Jeremiah brought him comfort and peace. AMEN!! God's Word is very much alive and at work.
Another lesson for Snurr. A very, very important one.